{"id":912,"date":"2019-12-18T17:32:59","date_gmt":"2019-12-18T17:32:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/stresslessmillennial.com\/?p=912"},"modified":"2022-01-05T18:16:52","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T18:16:52","slug":"the-stress-less-holiday-gift-giving-guide","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/stresslessmillennial.com\/2019\/12\/18\/the-stress-less-holiday-gift-giving-guide\/","title":{"rendered":"The Holiday Gift Giving Guide To Help You Stress Less"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

It\u2019s a week before Christmas and you haven\u2019t bought gifts for anyone yet. You do this every year and inevitably it is hell because you do all your shopping last minute. The idea of hand-selecting gifts for everyone is too overwhelming so you put it off. If only you had a holiday gift giving guide to help the stress melt away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Say goodbye to the holiday torture and make it fun again! <\/p>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n

Here\u2019s a guide to stress-free gift-giving that will still be thoughtful, but make you want to tear your hair out less! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Organize Your People<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Create a list of every person you intend to give a gift to and how much you would like to spend on them. From here, you can decide what to search for, read reviews, buy based on good reviews, and make sure the shipping date is before Hannukah or Christmas! (Sounds obvious, but you don’t want to find out later you’ve ordered a gift that will come in January!).<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Secret Santa<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t do this already, do a Secret Santa with everyone you spend Christmas with. I love drawnames.com<\/a> for this. It allows you to enter everyone who will be participating and exclude who shouldn\u2019t buy a gift for who (for example mom and dad shouldn\u2019t buy a gift for one another because they will buy each other gifts anyway). This will reduce the need to spend hours agonizing over what to get for so many people. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Give An Experience <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

My niece and nephew are blessed to have a huge family who showers them with presents. My husband and I realized a while ago that our gifts get lost in the pile and don’t have any real meaning. Since then, we give the kids an experience rather than a toy. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We’ve given experiences such as the movies, the aquarium, a trampoline place, Chuckie Cheese. It doesn\u2019t have to be costly. You can even decide just to have them over and have a pajama\/craft day or ask them what games they\u2019d like to play and buy some snacks. The idea is that we get to spend this quality time with them at least once a year and have them all to our selves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Gift Needed Items<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

This one is really simple. Rather than guessing what everyone wants, ask everyone what they need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re going to be spending money on them, they would probably appreciate something they need versus a gift that they might not ever use. They may want a gift card or new socks which is a snooze alert, but if that’s what they want it makes life easier for both of you.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Group Gift<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If the gift your loved one wants is expensive, see if you can split it with others such as siblings, cousins or friends. Sometimes it\u2019s easier to get one expensive item someone needs from multiple people than to get a bunch of knick-knacks. Thirteen members of my family got my grandpa a new laptop last Christmas. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Gift Quality Time<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Instead of gift you hand someone, set a date to go out to dinner and enjoy one another. This gift, especially if you wish you could see that person more often, is worth more than the scarf you grabbed last minute from Walmart out of desperation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Gift Yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

 If it\u2019s a friend or parent you can give a picture or coffee mug of you and them and freeze yourselves in time. If it\u2019s for parents and you have kids, they will especially enjoy a calendar, coffee mug or book of their grandchildren they can cherish all year long. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doesn\u2019t feel like enough? Order take out or cook for them next time you are visiting so they can enjoy their grandchildren without having to worry about dinner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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8. Give A DIY Gift<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re feeling crafty or love to bake, go ahead and make your gift for your loved ones. One good thing about this activity is that it is a nice way to occupy your time and distract you from any stress you may be experiencing. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Some ideas could be homemade cookies or caramel that you wrap nicely, or anything that you can personalize will give that extra warm touch so they know it was meant just for them. This doesn\u2019t have to be costly. Your local 99 cents store will have items in bulk that you can personalize. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Set A Strict Price Limit<\/strong> <\/h3>\n\n\n\n

The guessing game of \u201cWill they spend more on me?\u201d is a pain. Set a strict amount of money you will spend on each other and stick to it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Don\u2019t Give A Gift At All<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Choose people in your life, such as your partner or sibling, who wouldn\u2019t mind saving the extra money for those who expect a gift, such as kids. This way, you agree to take the burden off of one another. If it feels cheap or like a Christmas killjoy, set aside a special day after the holidays to dedicate to one another and give the gift of your company. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Request A Favor <\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n

Ask for something free that\u2019s worth its weight in gold, such as babysitting. If you have kids this is a monumental gift! you can even ask for advice from a loved one based on their career. You have an Uncle who’s a financial advisor and you’re in debt? Request financial advice instead of a soy candle!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I hope you aren\u2019t experiencing gift-giving stress this holiday season<\/a>, but if you are, here are some ways to lessen that stress.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Step back, make a plan, share yourself, and enjoy what\u2019s best about this time that only comes once a year. Allow the gifts to matter less and enjoy your time with those you love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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